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Professional and Personal MotivationSOME VALUABLE THOUGHTS Part 2
Copyright 1997 Ike Siddiqi Ike_Siddiqi@Hotmail.com
Published on Tim Richardson's home page
PEOPLE
HAPPINESS - Have real & sincere interest in people - Smile at people
- People's name is the nicest sound in their language
- Listen attentively and encourage people to talk about themselves
- Talk about subjects that are of interest to people
- Make people feel important and admire them sincerely
CONVINCING - Be in a good mood - Live and let live
- Respect people's lifestyle
- Positive criticism
- Show sincere appreciation
- Be polite
CHANGING - Avoid arguing - Respect people's opinion
- Do not tell people they are wrong
- If you are wrong, admit quickly and explicitly
- Start friendly
- Get people in yes-yes mood
- Let people talk
- Make people believe they invented the idea
- Put yourself in other people's shoes
- Be sympathetic to people's ideas and desires
- Impact on people's fair play
- Visualize ideas
- Challenge people
- Be positive and show sincere appreciation - Advise people's mistakes indirectly
- Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing people
- Give orders in an inquiring way
- Do not hurt people
- Admire graciously and enthusiastically the slightest improvement
- Give people enthusiasm to keep up
- Encourage people by letting their improvements look easiy to achieve
- Make people love to do what you would like them to do
Comments. Page modified: August 11, 2003
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